ICE ICE BABY…..

We need ICE... We shouldn't... but we do! It would be ideal if those with criminal intent simply left, allowing the hardworking individuals who want to be here to stay and begin their path to citizenship—a process that respects the laws of the land.

However, the reality is that criminals rarely operate that way. They often put everyone at risk without regard for the consequences, prioritizing their own needs above the safety of the community they hide within. They count on the compassion of that very community to shield them, even while they may be committing serious offenses.

When we ignore these dangers, we inadvertently fail the victims of crimes like trafficking and robbery. The safety of our neighborhoods should be paramount. Voting is essentially "renting" leadership to protect and serve us, but we must remember that safety is an ongoing battle.

We need to be realistic about the dangers that can exist right next door. Criminals often blend in, appearing as the "quiet neighbor," while concealing dangerous connections or intentions. We cannot afford to turn a blind eye. We must prioritize the safety of our families and neighbors, understanding that while we want to be compassionate, we also need to let law enforcement do the necessary job of keeping our communities safe.

Rules Apply to You TOO Asshat

 I wouldn't call myself a stickler for rules, but I do believe in practicing what I preach. I don't just set boundaries and then hurdle over them while expecting everyone else to stay in their lane.

Take my visits to my mother's retirement home, for example. There's a designated drop-off zone clearly marked "No Parking," designed for quick pick-ups and drop-offs. Yet, every single time I visit, someone has treated it like their personal VIP spot, blocking the entire flow of traffic. It's maddening.

Stupid DHS

OKDHS’s claim that eligibility retention will not end on January 1st is misleading. In reality, disenrollment began as early as November based on renewal dates, with further reductions occurring throughout January and February.

For too long, the agency has dismissed provider concerns and enforced arbitrary regulations without transparency, often citing administrative constraints to avoid accountability. However, the industry landscape has shifted. The challenges of the pandemic compelled us to unite, highlighting our collective resourcefulness and expertise. We have mastered the QRIS framework, strengthened our networks through professional development, and maintained high standards of quality and accreditation. OKDHS has consistently underestimated our resilience and competence, but we are now organized, informed, and ready to demand public accountability.

Some People are Worth Their Weight... Some, NOT SO MUCH!

Blogging is about putting pen to paper (or fingers to keys) and processing the messy stuff. And trust me, I’ve had all the feels lately.

I always ask myself: "Should I post this? Does anyone actually care?" But then I remember why I started: I do this for me. If my rambling helps even one person realize their feelings are valid, then it’s totally worth it.

So here’s the gist: Say what you mean and mean what you say. In a world full of false promises, finding genuine people is rare. When someone you rely on does a 180 on their word, it stings—badly. And honestly? Once that trust is broken, nothing else really matters.

Dennis keeps calling me beautiful and for that... I know he is a keeper.