Somewhere along the way, we decided that if something hurts our feelings, the other person must have done something wrong.
Nope.
Sometimes somebody was rude.
Sometimes somebody really does owe you an apology.
And sometimes?
You just didn’t like what they said. 😂
Being offended doesn’t automatically make you the victim. Disagreeing with you isn’t disrespecting you. And somebody telling you something you don’t want to hear isn’t necessarily “toxic.”
Sometimes the truth just has terrible bedside manner.
You can be offended and they can still be right.
Those two things can exist at the same time.
Your feelings deserve consideration. They don’t automatically win the argument.
Somebody needed to say it.
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