Who decides what’s imperfect anyways??

I’ll keep my quirkinesses.  Some of them are my superpowers!!

I Need Substance!

Nights!!!! Why do I want to eat so much at night?!!  I’m going to start going to bed at 6:30 right after work so I can lose weight!  I want sweet stuff, crunchy stuff, anything on a bone!!! (I’m a carnivore)  if it’s chocolate ... it doesn’t stand a chance at making until morning!  I need to drop 40 and I can’t even go 40 minutes without looking in the fridge!  I gave  up ice cream 2 months ago and still sitting at the same weight. So...... I blog to get my mind off of snacking and what did I write??  Shit about eating!!! 🤦🏼‍♀️

Gathering my senses

I like to stay at home when the world is Poppin'.  It’s different staying at home on a weekday when everybody else is at work.  Being nice and cozy in your house whether you’re cleaning it or just watching Netflix.  Sometimes it’s nice just to get away to relax, to think a little... to prioritize. Gather my wits and pay attention to my senses.  And sometimes it provides a good day to make potato soup in the crock pot.❥

Hear me roar bitches!

I am not a "disgrace to women" because I don't support the women's march. I do not feel I am a "second class citizen" because I am a woman. I do not feel my voice is "not heard" because I am a woman. I do not feel I am not provided opportunities in this life or in America because I am a woman. I do not feel that I "don't have control of my body or choices" because I am a woman. I do not feel like I am " not respected or undermined" because I am a woman. I am not a "victim" because you say I am.

I AM a woman. 

I can make my own choices. 

I can speak and be heard. 

I can VOTE. 

I can work if I want. 

I control my body. 

I can defend myself. 

I can defend my family. 

There is nothing stopping me to do anything in this world but MYSELF. 

I do not blame my circumstances or problems on anything other than my own choices or even that sometimes in life, we don't always get what we want. I take responsibility for myself. 

I am a mother, a daughter, a wife, a sister, a friend. I am not held back in life but only by the walls I choose not to go over which is a personal choice. 

Quit blaming. 

Take responsibility. 

If you want to speak, do so. But do not expect for me, a woman, to take you seriously wearing a pink hat on your head and screaming profanities and bashing men. 

If you have beliefs, and speak to me in a kind matter, I will listen. But do not expect for me to change my beliefs to suit yours. Respect goes both ways. 

If you want to impress me, especially in regards to women, then speak on the real injustices and tragedies that affect women in foreign countries that do not have the opportunity or means to have their voices heard. 

Saudi Arabia, women can't drive, no rights and must always be covered. 

China and India, infantcide of baby girls. 

Afghanistan, unequal education rights. 

Democratic Republic of Congo, where rapes are brutal and women are left to die or HIV infected and left to care for children alone. 

Mali, where women can not escape the torture of genital mutilation. 

Pakistan, in tribal areas where women are gang raped to pay for men's crime. 

Guatemala, the impoverished female underclass of Guatemala faces domestic violence, rape and the second-highest rate of HIV/AIDS after sub-Saharan Africa. An epidemic of gruesome unsolved murders has left hundreds of women dead, some of their bodies left with hate messages. Or the 7 year old girls being sold or married off to 60 year old men, Or the millions of women sold and bought into sex trafficking. 

And that's just a few examples. 

So when women get together in AMERICA and whine they don't have equal rights and march in their clean clothes, after eating a hearty breakfast, and it's like a vacation away that they have paid for to get there...

This WOMAN does not support it.