My funny husband

Watching cops where a woman got arrested, and her husband said he'd try to find money to bail her out, piqued my curiosity to ask Dennis... Would you bail me out of jail?

Dennis: Why did you get arrested?

Me: 😒 Does it matter?!

Dennis: well yeah!  If you got arrested for soliciting prostitution, probably not! 😳😁 

LOL, this man's got jokes!

A Wieght has been lifted

I have attended therapy sessions and consulted with tarot reading phyics who have advised me to distance myself from negative individuals in my life. They have explained that such people can bring about significant emotional burdens and strain on friendships. However, I have always held the belief that by staying friends with them, I could somehow help them with a more optimistic environment. But there comes a point when I must establish boundaries, especially when I find myself receiving lectures from someone who is not unable to manage their own financial situation from paycheck to paycheck without asking for handouts.

It's important for me to prioritize my own well-being and mental health, and being constantly surrounded by negativity can be detrimental. While it may be difficult to let go of these friendships, I have come to understand that sometimes it's necessary for my own growth and happiness. Cutting ties with negative individuals doesn't mean I don't care about them, but rather, it allows me to create space for positive and supportive relationships. It's essential to surround myself with people who uplift and inspire me, individuals who share similar values and goals.

I Don’t Understand the Need to Dwell

Maybe it’s my generation or maybe it's because I don't have the time for unnecessary complaints, but I've come across numerous posts from women who seem to crave attention, admiration, or are fixated on past incidents. Now, I can understand if someone is a public speaker on a particular topic, traveling from event to event, but posting it on social media as a status update doesn't quite qualify.

I left an abusive marriage without wasting time documenting or dwelling on it for months. Once things started turning sour, I swiftly relocated myself and my children 248 miles away, forging a better life. I don't need to make excuses for my ex-husband, nor do I feel the need to repeatedly go over the details of my life that I've already shared. 

However, there are some individuals who can't seem to let go and continuously revisit, retell, and rehash what they've already disclosed. They have a tendency to overshare and it becomes rather evident that their constant posts about their negative experiences are nothing more than a cry for attention, admiration, or simply an obsession with the past.

 It's important to reflect on our past experiences and learn from them, but constantly dwelling on them can hinder personal growth. Instead of fixating on the negative, it's more productive to focus on moving forward and creating a positive future. Sharing our experiences can be therapeutic, but when it becomes a repetitive cycle, it may indicate a deeper issue that needs to be addressed. Seeking professional help or finding healthy outlets for emotional expression can be beneficial in these situations. Letting go of the past and embracing the present can lead to a happier and more fulfilling life.