It's Not Just About You.

Don't you find posts like this frustrating and self-serving? It's puzzling why people feel the need to put them out there. Maybe they're seeking attention? Lately, I've seen countless posts like this across social media platforms, especially since the new year. It's a type of cleansing technique that some people use to convince themselves that they deserve undivided attention. But here's the thing: you should know your worth without seeking validation from others!

Sure, one can understand the message about the challenges of one-sided relationships. However, there's often more to the story as to why your friends aren't constantly blowing up your phone. Sometimes they're dealing with serious issues like anxiety, depression, or introversion. And let's not forget the impact of Covid-19, which has made many people content with staying home. Others may be swamped with work, building a career, or dealing with their own family responsibilities. Perhaps they're new grandparents investing extra time in their grandkids, or they're caring for elderly parents. Some are trying to navigate the difficult balance of work and starting a family, and there are those who simply can't afford to socialize.

Before we rush to cut people out of our lives based on how they make us feel, we need to remember that it's not always about us. We may not have a clue about the hardships others are currently facing.